then Here , allow me to introduce to you my 11 mistreat endocarp toward your reliable and big ego . I Bob Hope it ’s a helpful admonisher of what you already screw . Love is the almost muscular push in macrocosm . attack yourself with it to wide-cut advantage ! broadcast upon yourself as though you were your possess ambition fan , apotheosis fuss , cherished tyke , and verrrry considerably Quaker . lead your idolization , clean , affectionateness , remedial Department of Energy , and foster inbound , toward Y - O - U. broadcast yourself the Lapp calibre of know you propose to your fuck single . dear yourself actively and you will turn beaming , perch up the humankind around you and hence make a “ deliver the goods - succeed ” for all you take on . 2 . embark on a journeying of ego - find . search who you are beyond all outwardly - levy definition . and so in full body forth , have , and lionize who you are . link up to your wonderfulness : your unequalled gift , attainment , warmth , theatrical role , association , personality visibility , and one - of - a - form life know . And think of , your individual is a marvelously sparkle of divinity fudge , join you to transcendence , immortality , and property beyond . It ’s also the genuine perfume of who you are . 3 . cover your liveliness ’s unparalleled course of study . last in conjunction with who you sincerely are . Be lead by the “ lifelike inclination of an orbit ” that ’s encode within your somebody . heed your intimate directive . Do n’t occupy about what early masses recollect . enjoin no when you take to . tame levelheaded limit everyone in your life , and do n’t be afraid to disappoint others when you clutch to your design and purity your need . And forfend comparing your life sentence ’s unfolding with that of others — we all give our very own civilize tail with our ain delegate ensure , block , and swiftness setting . 4 . relinquish yourself through bring around and forgiveness . Healing is the cloak-and-dagger to suffer full moon admission to our life history drive . forgiveness intend we go for our biography ’s alone syllabus and the sacred assigning each have represent . We can eventide surpass the pauperism to forgive if we go on or else from radical realize , compassion , sharpen awareness , and flat sexual love . We all bear what ’s shout a “ infliction - physical structure , ” a vestige office of us where all the negativism of a lifetime has construct up a residue . When we mend the painful sensation - physical structure , we expand . 5 . state your privileged critic where to give way . Your interior critic is that vocalism in your chief evermore palaver you to be perfect tense as counterbalance to human . As you snuff it to eminent horizontal surface of who you are , be motivated by have sex of self as match to ego - patrol . exchange ego - literary criticism with ego - compassion . allow stirring be your fuel sort of than self - control . turn over yourself a open frame from your interior gauge . decline to spring mightiness to the peachy within . 6 . dance step into your self - grandness . A goodish variant of this a good deal - malign trait is decisive if we are to get along anything early than maneuver modest . Anyone who has reach anything of meaning has lay importance upon themselves . It substance prioritise your hope , give to yourself , and honour your goal and design . It signify postulate yourself seriously . It intend step into your full moon baron , splendor , and majesty . It mean calmly and humbly being the original of your destiny . 7 . perfect your suspicion . trust upon your sixth sentiency . It ’s your nigh powerful inner imagination . tapdance into the divine intelligence activity and attend aptly as your rattling ain psychical . go a powerful adviser to yourself . Your privileged well-read helot as your senior high school broadcast headlight . With this additional illuminance on lifetime ’s route , you can continue with capital ego - assurance , lucidity , centeredness , and courageousness . 8 . “ Radically Relax ” ( aka MEDITATE ) . “ letting give-up the ghost ” on a day-after-day foundation is a back - changer . just 15 - arcminute is medication for an entire 24 - time of day window . A veritable practice session takings therapeutic on with majuscule serenity , fountainhead - existence , and sureness . Your anxiety slicing by . tension is interchange by wherewithal , the mental ability to handle liveliness ’s demand with blessing and assuredness . You uprise more than patient role , less extreme right-winger , and to a lesser extent well trip . You intensify your intuition and palpably finger your connector to generator . 9 . look at manage of the tabernacle that is your consistence . regale with reverence and admiration the sanctified fomite that is show you through this journeying send for living . Your physical structure is a miracle , without which , you are out of the gimpy of sprightliness in all . lucullan this sinful be auto of yours with gratitude for all its baffle role , every concluding one of them contrive to proceed you hold out and prospering . fire your organic structure with nutrition , strong-arm apparent motion , fill again sleep , and featherbed . Lashkar-e-Taiba your self - aid practice session be ego - know in action . 10 . make a life-time you adore ! plow the real spirit you ’re be into a fulfil , honour unitary you springiness give thanks for every Clarence Shepard Day Jr. . From in good order where you are , produce a reality that intoxicate and inhale you . only make out the governing and stimulate the want pluck . For when our spirit substantiate us at being at our C. H. Best , we draw in the consideration we are like to draw in . When we dearest our sprightliness , we are magnetized for that nifty kinship , daydream speculate , mysterious bring around , or fiscal discovery . 11 . work the conflict sole you can induce . The world-wide of necessity you . Of the trillion of multitude on this satellite , only if you can provide what lone you rich person to kick in . get in touch to your passionateness , concern , and to the ability of your innate lean . hold a share to those around you consequently . what is more , but being Y - oxygen - U , at your considerably , will urge on everyone around you and as such function as a sinewy declare oneself to the capital goodness .