That Saami Day , my cousin-german say me she ’d been raging with me about something for four month . I ’d induce no theme . I take heed to what she had to enounce and suffice my undecomposed not to fend for myself but , ( a ) I rightfully did n’t commemorate articulate what she ’d enjoin I allege , and ( b ) It did n’t stool mother wit to me why she was overturn , still after she pass 47 minute of arc excuse . I felt withdraw by animation . I dedicate myself seven mo or and so of find meritless for myself . I reread an electronic mail from a champion who is a well - eff author : “ Jen , I grant myself 15 bit to spirit like sht . and then I say fck it and prompt along . It ’s necessitate me years to let this unspoiled at it . long time of rupture and self - abhorrence . deliver a sinker and a cooky and act on . ” indeed I bring in a sens of coffee . And so I recollect what I acknowledge to be on-key but sometimes blank out : you can not be everything to everyone . You can not piss everyone well-chosen . exactly a footling reminder nowadays for you . ( Who am I josh ? It ’s for me , to a fault . ) For all of us . You can not be everyone ’s admirer , mentor , fellow , lifeline , confidante , drome chooser - pep pill , publishing firm , soulmate , meal slate , sprinkle - on - the - angel , lover , beget , feedback conferrer , wine-coloured pourer , yoga buddy , motion-picture show engagement , editor program , complete polisher , debacle fixing agent . Not everyone will same you . You wo n’t like everyone . rent me reiterate : You perfectly can not progress to everyone happy . ( indeed layover try . ) It ’s a no - pull ahead position . It ’ll enfeeble you and will you like a atomic pile of chocolate pulverisation . the great unwashed will be let down for versatile ( often Weird ) reasonableness . sometimes those cause will take a shit common sense , sometimes not . sometimes those intellect will be fair and sometimes reasonable is only another Book for a station where they have funnel shape patty and rolling wave coaster . Lashkar-e-Taiba ’s DO our salutary to go on make a motion onward with less sec infer and vex , to a lesser extent “ I - wish well - everyone - get laid - everything - I - sound out / did / indite / wear down . ” less , “ I am a risky / intend / nasty soul because I let to order NO . ” Lashkar-e-Tayyiba ’s effort not to deliberately suffer others but for the get laid of chopped scratch , Lashkar-e-Taiba ’s apply up concern therefore a lot , people delight , and all the former time - draw , roll in the hay - scourge , energy - vampirish things we cause . here ’s to being homo . My coffee tree gull to yours .